shipping - custom

I dont live in any of the countries listed under ‘shipping settings’

is it possible to make a custom one?

when a customer buys, they see:

“Unfortunately, no shipping options are available for your location.

Please contact us and we will see about delivering to you.”

I have setup 3 different shipping options

You need to read the knowledge base about “locations”. This is what determines whether a shipping method is avaliable for a particular location.