Anyone with a vast amount of server/apache/mysql expereince would like to help me out with my VPS server? I have been having issues with server speed and I am looking for some consulting help. I pay in bikini’s for your wife/girl friend/sister 
PM me or e-mail me.
Thanks
You post your problems here so, other can learn from answers. I’ve done my VPS and it looks good. For me 
First thing to figure out is what might be chewing up your server. I found that by using the following 2 lines in robots.txt that the load on the server decreased by more than 50%.
Crawl-delay: 2.0
Request-rate: 30
The first is for Yahoo and says only do 2 pages/minute. The second is for Google and says to do a page every 30 seconds. I was amazed to see the difference this made.